The First Date Kiss

Create fireworks!
Create fireworks!

Hello Gentlemen,

One of the exciting things about being single, is having that “first kiss”. Going on the first date, and ending the night with a fabulous kiss.

I think expecting a kiss on the first date isn’t a great set-up for success. Yes, sometimes kissing a person can get some things out of the way: are they a bad kisser? no chemistry?

I will have to argue, that some of the best first kisses occur after date 2 or 3, not date 1. If you can manage it, WAIT for the first kiss. When you get to know the person better and the anticipation of, “when will it happen?” makes it so much better.

Expecting a kiss at the end of the first date can be disastrous, most of the time you’re still getting to know each other and it can be too soon. Some of the best kisses I ever had were after the 2nd or 3rd date, because from the girl’s perspective, a guy usually tries to go in for a kiss after the 1st date. For me, that’s usually way too soon. But when you leave a girl waiting… then she’s in anticipation for the first kiss and it makes it so much more magical when it does happen.

And wouldn’t you rather want the girl to be in anticipation for the kiss than to be rushed into it? When you wait, you’re doing something most guys don’t have the patience for, so you’re already different from the others, plus you are starting to get to know the girl better, so you have a better gauge of when the timing is right.

So, if you can, prolong the wait and more often than not, it’ll be worth it.

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11 thoughts on “The First Date Kiss

  1. I always sucked at this part too. I never went in unless I was practically told to. So that meant two or three dates of no kissing attempting, and then them thinking I didn’t care. I was always good at other things like taking the trash out and making nachos.

    1. Taking out the trash is a very high quality to have and very admirable. Be proud of yourself. Although, watch out for the wizards, who knows what they can use going through trash @_@

  2. I’m a fan of the “almost kiss”. Get so close it seems inevitable, so that you can see if those sparks fly between each other’s lips, and then deny yourself it.
    No sparks = not worth it.
    Sparks = this is going to be worth waiting for.
    Boy x

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